Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Twelve Months

Janie has reached her big milestone of ONE YEAR OLD! It's been a year full of so many changes and experiences for everyone in our family. We can't imagine what our lives would be like without our little Janie Belle to love on every day. She is determined, vocal, energetic, focused, and so, so very sweet.

Janie Elizabeth
HEIGHT: 30 inches
WEIGHT: 20 pounds, 13 ounces
Photo by Leslie Eure Photography

In the last month...

Drinks 4 bottles of soy formula We have made valid attempts to get Janie off of her bottle and drinking from a sippy cup full time. She is currently drinking soy formula still but we are going to try to switch her to milk and see how her tummy reacts to it. Hopefully she has grown out of her intolerance to cow's milk and will be able to eat yummy milk, cheese, & yogurt! Time will tell in this next week...

Eats three meals plus snacks of table foods Janie has done a great job with eating on her own. She wants whatever everyone else has and will literally leap across the table to get it if you do not give her some when she asks you the first time. It's kind of an amazing talent to be able to reach all the way across the table when your arms are as small as hers. Her food is becoming the main source of her dietary needs so she has been eating a lot more of it. When we cut back on the drink with the switch from formula to milk she should eat even more which kind of scares me. Janie can eat half of a banana and five strawberries and still want more food. The girl eats.

Takes 2 naps a day For the most part, we've cut down to one nap. I kind of hate it but it is liberating to an extent so I guess there is good in that. Plus, we can time the girls to nap at the same time so that helps out a lot and makes it pretty quiet around the house on the weekends for a couple of hours. When Nora was a baby she needed her sleep. Her "tell" was (and still is...) that she would get whiney and easily frustrated. She would get very, very needy. Janie's "tell" is that she rubs her head and sucks her thumb. We learned through experience ("Oh! She's tired. I'll feed her lunch and then put her down for a nap...") that when you feed her she gets this second wind of sorts. Feed her and she's good for awhile. But, unfortunately that means she does not really need a second nap. And she most of the time will not go down for a second nap anymore if you tried so it seems a better plan to get the one nap of the day scheduled for the same time and just enjoy those couple of hours. And I have not had nearly the fun experience that I did with Nora and her hair, but Janie has some pretty incredible bed head sometimes - even when she hasn't been sleeping!

BEFORE bedtime... Look at that tuft in back!

Sucks her thumb & rubs her head This is her thing! I wish I could get her to do something else to soothe herself but this is it for now. She has had a terribly chapped face over the last month or so that comes and goes but sucking on her thumb is not helping her out in the least. And she drools.  I wonder if/when she will grow out of this habit... Dr. B. says that there is nothing really to do now and that trying to stop her may actually make it worse by drawing attention to it.

Prefers crawling Janie has really shown a heightened interest in walking these days. Of course she would rather have crawled all over the waiting room floor at the doctor's office today, but for the most part she does actually like to walk. When she is in a hurry, she crawls though. One of her favorite games these days is "chase". She crawls away and then looks back as if to say, "Come and get me!" Then, giggles as you grab her. Repeat and repeat and repeat.

Can take a few steps Her walking has gotten pretty steady though she does fall down often. At first, Janie loved walking a few steps towards a person (preferably me LOL) but now she will just stand up and take off to anywhere. A few weeks ago when she would fall over, she would just switch to crawling but now she will stand back up and try walking again, about half of the time. She will be walking on her own all over the place in no time...


Moves between furniture Janie is a professional furniture creeper. She moves between furniture, under furniture, and around furniture. She does not go over it yet - thank goodness!! I also learned over the holiday break that Janie can very skillfully climb stairs. She has to be watched carefully as suddenly sitting on a stair while climbing can be quite dangerous.

Moving around at Mimi's house on the bathtub!

Stands alone Janie is great at standing and will even play standing without holding onto anything by herself these days.

Has 6 teeth There's a seventh tooth creeping in! I can see it on the bottom. I bet there's an eighth on it's way too...

Talks in baby babble with ma's, da's, and ga's Janie loves to tell stories. She mostly babbles but has started using a couple of words, too. She will say up ("buh") and "hi" and "bye" and then I'm also pretty sure she says the word "no." Of course!

Photo by Leslie Eure Photography

Sings I have not seen more evidence of singing though Janie loves her music! She loves dancing (bouncing)!

Signs "all done" and "more" Janie can also sign "up" which comes along with the word and we saw her sign "please" tonight at dinner, after being prompted. I know they've worked on that sign at school so I wonder what else she might possibly know... We are still working on "eat" and "milk" and "help" but haven't seen her use them yet. She signs "more" when she wants to eat. I think Nora did that, too. At least I know what she means!

Plays Peek-A-Boo Peek-a-boo is still a favorite game. That, and the chase game I mentioned earlier. Otherwise, Janie loves her musical toys and bath time. She likes to watch and interrupt anything that Nora is doing. And walking. Those are her favorite activities!

Gives hugs & blows kisses Janie is the absolute sweetest. She will just lay down on you, resting her head on you, and give hugs. She does it to Ford even! It is so sweet. She also randomly blows kisses, but not as often as her hugs. What a doll! Janie is also the best snuggler ever. I love putting her to sleep because I know that she will just cozy right in and snuggle with me. It's the best! One night, over the holidays, I even got to share the bed with her!

Snuggling with Mimi!

Loves her mommy I love my mama's girl. It can be exhausting though. I can't disappear to do laundry. Or get my coffee from the kitchen. Or go to the bathroom without a scream from someone in the house. It's bittersweet... but mostly sweet.

Janie and mommy

Loves & follows her big sister Nora There haven't been as many throw downs as there were the last month over toys and such. I think this is partly because Nora has learned what to do when Janie gets in her business, partly because Janie has begun to be disciplined a little bit about things she can and cannot do, and partly because there are so many new and fun things to do that both of the girls can find something else to do and play with if they do not want to share. Mostly the girls love each other and it is the sweetest.

Photo by Leslie Eure Photography

At one year (plus a little more) Janie is...

Drinks soy formula from a sippy cup four times a day
Eats three meals plus snacks of table foods
Does not eat dairy products
Takes 1 nap a day
Sucks her thumb & rubs her head
Crawls and walks to move around
Has 6 1/2 teeth
Can say a few words, like "up," "hi," and "bye"
Waves
Loves music & dancing
Signs "all done" and "more" and "please"
Plays Peek-A-Boo and Chase
Is a great snuggler
Loves her mommy/Separation Anxiety
Has learned what "no" means

I love this girl so much!! Happy One Year to you, Janie!

Photo by Leslie Eure Photography

Photo by Leslie Eure Photography

Photo by Leslie Eure Photography

Photo by Leslie Eure Photography

Friday, December 26, 2014

An Illinois Christmas

As a family, we have always gotten together with my aunts, uncles, cousins, & grandparents to celebrate Christmas. When my family moved to Texas it became slightly more challenging to get back every year, but we usually packed up the minivan and drove the sixteen hours from Southlake, Texas to Rochelle, Illinois.

The last few years have been the hardest to go back. We've been back pretty regularly with the exception of last year when I was nine months pregnant but now that there are two little children in the mix it makes going anywhere a little bit more challenging.

We decided that we were going to make the trip up to Illinois to spend that precious time with my grandpa and family members that I don't get to see very often. Flying was too costly so we decided to make the long drive instead. Since my mom and sister were flying, they graciously offered to take Janie with them so we agreed to that knowing it would make the drive easier.

Janie's second plane trip!

We left the day after Christmas. We got the packing done in the knick of time and loaded everything and everyone up in the car (except for the dog... we had to go back and get him - oops!) and we headed to my parents' house to drop off Janie before we started the road trip.

We left before nap time hoping that Nora would take a nap in the car and then we would arrive in the early morning hours. Nora fell asleep way later than we would have liked for both nap time and bed time, but that was the worst of the drive with her. The only times she fought the car ride were when she was tired and was trying not to fall asleep. She watched some movies on the iPad and played with some of the toys that we had brought along in the car. We ate lunch on the road and stopped for dinner to walk around a little bit. We arrived safe & sound!

Watching movies!

My girl, cheesing in the back seat

"Stinky feet!" she says
(still wearing those slippers!)

Nap time - finally - at 5:00 pm!

We spent three days with family in Illinois. I just love being able to see this part of my family at Christmas time and so wished we lived close enough to see them more often. We had our Gruben family Christmas complete with catching up with family, tons of yummy food and desserts (FIVE pies - yum!!), gift exchange, and Pretty, Pretty Princess.

Nora & Auntie K

Nora in the little rocking chair that belonged to my mom 
and her brother & sisters when they were young!

Reunited with my baby after her flight!!

Daniel being a good sport & wearing that black 
ring proudly, just like he used to...

Janie Belle!

We also got to see my sister Amy and her brand new baby Chase! I was SO excited to meet my baby nephew and he is just as perfect as can be so praise the Lord for that!

Baby Chase!!!



Nora loving on her new cousin!!

It was hard to pack up and leave after our short trip. We left a little earlier in the day hoping to make it home a little earlier as well. The return drive went fairly smoothly - Nora leaked through her diaper while she slept and we hit a little bit of traffic - but otherwise decent. We were thankful for no ice & snow on the roads and a safe trip!

Nora & Daddy outside at Great Grandpa Gruben's house

Mommy & the girls - it was cold!!

The time flew by. I am so glad that we were able to make it happen. I am not sure how we will work this out in the future, but we know that this time is so important and want to be able to do it as often as we can. We love our Illinois family!

The Fourth Week of Christmas

Our final week of December was the best of them all! It also went by the fastest but it was the beginning of a great holiday season for the girls and included Janie's first Christmas! She is basically a blur these days so I didn't capture too many cute moments of her, but we enjoyed it just the same!

My girls! 

We started off the week with mostly business as usual. The girls went to school so that I could take care of some things around the house and wrap up all of the items on the to do list before the fun began! It was a long, hard day of work for me and basically non-stop from the time I got up to the time I went to bed, but everything got done!

The presents wrapped under the tree!

Nora and I had an appointment at the dentist, which went surprisingly better than it could have. Nora let the nurses look in her mouth and even brush her teeth a little bit. She was super thrilled to come home with a new toothbrush!

She picked the blue one out herself.

Justin and I actually went out solo to celebrate the birthday of a great friend! We saw "It's a Wonderful Life" on 35mm film & went out for drinks and fried chicken & waffles afterwards. It is a rare occasion and we had a blast celebrating Gordon!

Awe.


THEN... The festivities began! We celebrated Christmas FOUR times over the course of my two week break and it was fantastic!!

Some of our memorable moments from Christmas:

1. Celebrating Christmas with grandparents and aunties, which included lots of spoiling with gifts! The girls love their Grandma, Grandpa, Mimi & Pops, and all their aunties, and they treat the girls so special. It is amazing having close family for the girls!

Nora opening a present from Grandma.

A tricycle and an art smock!!!

Janie discovering her gift from Grandpa lights up!

A clear photo of Janie - it just had to be included.

The girls!

Janie loved the paper so much that she ate it sometimes!


2. Going to church on Christmas Eve. This is one my favorite services from the whole year and although I will admit that it was less enjoyable this year than in the past (baby plus lit candles plus approaching bedtime does not equal peaceful service for mommy), I still love going to sing Christmas songs and listen to the story of the birth of Christ!

3. Meeting baby Evan for the first time! I am so happy I got to hold our friends' sweet little boy and love on him for a bit. He was such a good baby!

4. Watching the Polar Express. I watch it every year at school but it was much more fun with the family.

Nora watched in her new slippers from Harper. 
She has hardly taken them off since she got them!

5. We baked cookies for Santa & ate a few, too! We kept it easy with break and bake. Nora liked helping me with the oven mitt and placing the cookies on the baking sheet.


5. SANTA CAME!!!! On Christmas morning, Santa brought Nora an art easel (plus supplies) and a yellow present, which she requested! Inside were slice & bake Christmas cookies which, realistically, could have been the ONLY present that she got for Christmas this year. I could hardly get her to open anything else because she wanted to play with them and not stop. Janie received a puzzle from Santa and some other fun little toddler toys and both girls got super soft robes!





THE YELLOW PRESENT!!!!

Sharing Christmas cookies with daddy.

6. Annual breakfast with our dear friends & neighbors on Christmas morning. We love our little tradition of breakfast in our jammies! The kids exchanged gifts and I ate two helpings of cinnamon rolls.

7. Janie's first and Nora's third Christmas with family. The girls are so sweet together. Nora really loved Christmas this year. She liked opening the gifts and would play with each toy when it got opened. Janie loved playing with the paper.

Nora opening presents.

Janie opening presents... or going after paper. One in the same.

Sisters at Christmas!




Nora & her stocking. 
I'm pretty sure Janie was in bed for a nap at this point...


And then there is what happened after the Christmas' and gift opening...

The Frozen tea party!